An article that you need to checkout NOW.

So today is not going to be a long article. Today is more about sharing some great stuff that I recently came across while browsing the internet. As I was going through my daily morning ritual of “tea + article reading”.. I came across this gem of an article sent by an old client. So thank you Lydia… there goes your shoutout! Now what do I find great about this article? I like how realistic it is… I like how it doesn’t dabble in fantasy. There are tons of ways that you can find love again…whether it be through online dating or putting yourself out there. By the materials that you will learn in my program, “Tomorrow Is Now” you will be able to make SURE that you interacting with these men on YOUR own terms. So this is where all you may meet your Mr. Right! Check it out:...

Here are 3 ways that you can start looking for the perfect man TODAY

Today we are going to talk about something very pleasing and interesting… can you guess it? We are going to be talking about finding THE PERFECT MAN. Well…not “perfect” because let’s face it…no one can be perfect…though Henry Cavill (the new superman) comes close to perfection if I may say so myself ;). I remember Tony Robbins in his program on having healthy relationships saying something very very poignant. We just wait and do nothing hoping that somehow the perfect person is going to drop on your lap. How can we be so entitled? How can we even hope of getting someone who can make us truly happy without putting in the work needed for it? I love that quote…because it perfectly embodies what I want to talk about. Plus, this is where you have an advantage over women who haven’t been married ever. You know how badly things can turn out when you compromise and settle for someone who is far lesser than what you should settle for. More often than not we settle for something less because we feel that we can’t do any better. This attitude comes out when we simply do not work into bettering our inner selves. This is where I come in,. In my program I take you through a requisite number of steps to ensure that you “bloom” into the amazing woman that I know you can be. Anyway….let me get back to the main point of this article. How do you look for the perfect man? Prepare yourself to be loved again: This one is more of an inner improvement. If...

Here are 4 Positive mindset changes that my friend developed after her divorce

My friend Maryse has this amazing ability of looking in the bright side of life. I believe that Monty Python made their most famous song thinking about her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHPOzQzk9Qo This is a woman who should have broken emotionally…after all her husband only went and left her for someone young enough to be his daughter. But this woman….this woman has never ever let anything get to her. 2 years ago her divorce finalized…. She is lives with her 3 daughters in Melbourne. A month back I visited her…we haven’t talked in ages. So I meet up with her and after our cup of coffee I asked her, “How do you do It Maryse?” “That’s not vague at all.” “I mean how do you not let anything get to you?” “Life is too short honey, if you can’t focus on the positives then you are going to let it fly by you.” So I asked her…what positives she could have possibly gained from her divorce. As it turns out.. there were plenty. He was not around to poison her family with negativity anymore. This is pretty understandable. When you have a dad/husband who is not invested in the family then you are bound to have negativity. You simply can’t accept that for yourself and more importantly for your children. You are finally free. Kind of extends from the previous point. Being trapped in a loveless marriage is terrible. You are doing yourself a HUGE disservice. You DESERVE to be loved and you DESERVE to be happy. You realize that you are not alone. This is what gets to most divorced women....

Here are 4 compelling reasons why you NEED to learn how to say “NO”

If you don’t give yourself the power to say “No” and allow yourself to be happy then you are simply going to go from one abusive relationship to another. All it takes is just a simple “No”, to stop yourself from drowning in misery. So let’s analyze this interesting conundrum…why is it that we are so scared….well not really scared, but why do we dislike saying this word so much?   We all grew up to be nice people… that’s what out values and education has inculcated in us. We are taught to be valuable cogs of this society and as a result we are told to make sacrifices and compromises for the betterment of everyone. As a result, more often than not, we are taught to be “yes men”. After all, at the end of the day we all want to come across as nice and easy going. We all want to be the “better person”, which is why we say “yes” even though we shouldn’t have said so. So here is why you start saying “No” more often: Give your time to stuff you actually want to do: This is a behavior that I have noticed in most recently divorced women. They are so willing to get involved in things that they more often than not spread themselves thin. At this stage they are usually so vulnerable and craving for company that they will go along with anything. This usually leads to lots of regrets and unfinished tasks. Just say NO when you don’t like what you are getting into and spend that quality time doing what...

3 biggest pains that most women go through after divorce

All divorced women go through a certain phase of “pain”. There is no need to deny it…it’s a very human reaction. After all…for better or for worse, you did lose someone who was a HUGE part of your life.. so of course going through this pain is going to be your natural reaction.   I am not going to say that you don’t need to feel this pain….but what I am telling you to do is to really look into it and analyse that particular pain. Once you are done analyzing you will realize that there are far more important things that you should give your time and energy to. So lt’s look at these problems: “Am I Not Pretty Anymore?”: This is a very common doubt especially among women who have been cheated on. They feel like that they have gone past their “sell by dates”.It’s a very deep rooted self-esteem issue. This isn’t something that hours of makeup or botox can heal.If you truly feel that whether or not a man can be with you depends completely on how you look then what you need is to know how to completely conquer your mind and its weaknesses. As I have stated earlier in my articles, I tackle these issues via NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) in my program. “What about my finances?”: This is a major one among women who don’t earn much via their jobs and housewives. If you have been in a long marriage then you get used to certain things.The feeling that at least someone is bringing home the bacon and sorting out the taxes...