An article that you need to checkout NOW.

So today is not going to be a long article. Today is more about sharing some great stuff that I recently came across while browsing the internet. As I was going through my daily morning ritual of “tea + article reading”.. I came across this gem of an article sent by an old client. So thank you Lydia… there goes your shoutout! Now what do I find great about this article? I like how realistic it is… I like how it doesn’t dabble in fantasy. There are tons of ways that you can find love again…whether it be through online dating or putting yourself out there. By the materials that you will learn in my program, “Tomorrow Is Now” you will be able to make SURE that you interacting with these men on YOUR own terms. So this is where all you may meet your Mr. Right! Check it out:...

Here are 3 ways that you can start looking for the perfect man TODAY

Today we are going to talk about something very pleasing and interesting… can you guess it? We are going to be talking about finding THE PERFECT MAN. Well…not “perfect” because let’s face it…no one can be perfect…though Henry Cavill (the new superman) comes close to perfection if I may say so myself ;). I remember Tony Robbins in his program on having healthy relationships saying something very very poignant. We just wait and do nothing hoping that somehow the perfect person is going to drop on your lap. How can we be so entitled? How can we even hope of getting someone who can make us truly happy without putting in the work needed for it? I love that quote…because it perfectly embodies what I want to talk about. Plus, this is where you have an advantage over women who haven’t been married ever. You know how badly things can turn out when you compromise and settle for someone who is far lesser than what you should settle for. More often than not we settle for something less because we feel that we can’t do any better. This attitude comes out when we simply do not work into bettering our inner selves. This is where I come in,. In my program I take you through a requisite number of steps to ensure that you “bloom” into the amazing woman that I know you can be. Anyway….let me get back to the main point of this article. How do you look for the perfect man? Prepare yourself to be loved again: This one is more of an inner improvement. If...

Here are 4 Positive mindset changes that my friend developed after her divorce

My friend Maryse has this amazing ability of looking in the bright side of life. I believe that Monty Python made their most famous song thinking about her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jHPOzQzk9Qo This is a woman who should have broken emotionally…after all her husband only went and left her for someone young enough to be his daughter. But this woman….this woman has never ever let anything get to her. 2 years ago her divorce finalized…. She is lives with her 3 daughters in Melbourne. A month back I visited her…we haven’t talked in ages. So I meet up with her and after our cup of coffee I asked her, “How do you do It Maryse?” “That’s not vague at all.” “I mean how do you not let anything get to you?” “Life is too short honey, if you can’t focus on the positives then you are going to let it fly by you.” So I asked her…what positives she could have possibly gained from her divorce. As it turns out.. there were plenty. He was not around to poison her family with negativity anymore. This is pretty understandable. When you have a dad/husband who is not invested in the family then you are bound to have negativity. You simply can’t accept that for yourself and more importantly for your children. You are finally free. Kind of extends from the previous point. Being trapped in a loveless marriage is terrible. You are doing yourself a HUGE disservice. You DESERVE to be loved and you DESERVE to be happy. You realize that you are not alone. This is what gets to most divorced women....

Here are 4 compelling reasons why you NEED to learn how to say “NO”

If you don’t give yourself the power to say “No” and allow yourself to be happy then you are simply going to go from one abusive relationship to another. All it takes is just a simple “No”, to stop yourself from drowning in misery. So let’s analyze this interesting conundrum…why is it that we are so scared….well not really scared, but why do we dislike saying this word so much?   We all grew up to be nice people… that’s what out values and education has inculcated in us. We are taught to be valuable cogs of this society and as a result we are told to make sacrifices and compromises for the betterment of everyone. As a result, more often than not, we are taught to be “yes men”. After all, at the end of the day we all want to come across as nice and easy going. We all want to be the “better person”, which is why we say “yes” even though we shouldn’t have said so. So here is why you start saying “No” more often: Give your time to stuff you actually want to do: This is a behavior that I have noticed in most recently divorced women. They are so willing to get involved in things that they more often than not spread themselves thin. At this stage they are usually so vulnerable and craving for company that they will go along with anything. This usually leads to lots of regrets and unfinished tasks. Just say NO when you don’t like what you are getting into and spend that quality time doing what...

3 biggest pains that most women go through after divorce

All divorced women go through a certain phase of “pain”. There is no need to deny it…it’s a very human reaction. After all…for better or for worse, you did lose someone who was a HUGE part of your life.. so of course going through this pain is going to be your natural reaction.   I am not going to say that you don’t need to feel this pain….but what I am telling you to do is to really look into it and analyse that particular pain. Once you are done analyzing you will realize that there are far more important things that you should give your time and energy to. So lt’s look at these problems: “Am I Not Pretty Anymore?”: This is a very common doubt especially among women who have been cheated on. They feel like that they have gone past their “sell by dates”.It’s a very deep rooted self-esteem issue. This isn’t something that hours of makeup or botox can heal.If you truly feel that whether or not a man can be with you depends completely on how you look then what you need is to know how to completely conquer your mind and its weaknesses. As I have stated earlier in my articles, I tackle these issues via NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) in my program. “What about my finances?”: This is a major one among women who don’t earn much via their jobs and housewives. If you have been in a long marriage then you get used to certain things.The feeling that at least someone is bringing home the bacon and sorting out the taxes...

This is the poem that made this amazing man go through 27 years of torture and imprisonment.

Today I am going to give you some good old inspiration. I want to share one of the most inspirational poems you will ever read. A poem that shaped policies, ended apartheid and gave hope to one of the most amazing men to have ever lived. I am talking about William Ernest Henley’s “invictus”… the poem that kept Nelson Mandela going as he was serving his time in jail. Here it is…check it out in all its glory:   In fact, let me do you one better. Here is Invictus recited by Morgan Freeman in his inimitable voice: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a7q_vACVwq0 It truly is surreal to hear him recite this poem. I have found out that no other piece of literature gets you as self-assured during moments of emotional crisis as this poem. Look at the first paragraph:   Out of the night that covers me, Black as the Pit from pole to pole. I thank whatever Gods may be For my unconquerable soul.   Doesn’t matter how bad your divorce was…doesn’t matter how broken your heart is, doesn’t matter how badly you are affected mentally. Your soul will always remain intact… its still there for you unbroken. You should never ever lose hope no matter how dark the “night” is that covers you.   In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud Under the bludgeonings of chance My head is bloody, but unbowed.   Life is unpredictable….we never know what we are going to get tomorrow or day after. No one can predict that. It is a fickle mistress after all… we are all dancing...

Want to know what technique in my program made my niece say “it literally gives you super powers”?

If there is one thing that you must know about us Australians its this. We LOVE sports. Soccer, rugby, Aussie rules, cricket, swimming,tennis..you name it and we play it. In fact, we take a lot of pride in the fact that we have the best athletes in the world and dominate most of the sports that we take part in.   Aussies like playing their sports hard and aggressive..which is why we respect it when someone gives that aggression back to us. That happened in 1985 in Sydney…when one tiny little Indian stood tall against the mighty Australian cricket team. Now we take a lot of pride in the cricket team. After all the greatest Australian sportsman of al time, Sir Donald Bradman was a cricketer himself. So it was fascinating to watch this tiny indian guy bringing the fight back to us. His name: Sunil Gavaskar…one of the finest cricketers of all time. One thing I vividly remember during the match was that he used to repeatedly stand aside and mutter some things to himself. In fact, he used to do that whenever he felt like the bowler was getting the better of him. Years later I realized that he was doing a form of NLP! Its funny how timeless this wonderful method is! All the top athletes in the world go through rigorous visual training and nerve management… most of them have their own personal sports psychiatrists. And among some of the top level athletes, the one tool that they used time and time and time again to achieve athletic perfection is Neuro Linguistic Programming, or NLP...

Checkout this awesome piece by zenpencils

In the last few articles I went into great details about Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) and how some of the greatest athletes of our era are using it to full potential. This article will be all about telling you how you can use this amazing power resource and bend it to your will. Ok so first thing’s first….why should you learn NLP in the first place? Human Beings are seemingly very complex creatures….but when you look deep into it…that complexity disappears. At the end of the day we are all governed by our mind….our mind is where all the impulses flows from. Our mind creates us…our minds destroys us.   To conquer your mind is to conquer your essence as a human being. What I want to offer to you <First Nmae>, via my coaching, is the art of conquering your mind. I want you to learn how to conquer your impulses so that you can move on from any heartbreaks and let go off all your negativity. I want you to stop choosing the wrong man and finally prepare yourself to get Mr. Right. So how does NLP help here? I have already given a very brief description of how it works in the last article…in my program I will teach you this concept in detail. For now, allow me to give you an example. I love Zenpencils.. and this is another example of their utter brilliance:   http://zenpencils.com/comic/nerdist/   Check it out! Anyway in my program I will help you master the science of NLP. So that you never need to feel hopeless or lost ever again…so...

Here is why most women humiliate and degrade themselves after divorce?

There are many ways that a bad divorce can affect you. It could be positive force of change in your life or it could lead you down a negative and self-destructive path. Sadly…more often than not divorce manifests a lot of negative and self-destructive energy. This leads to you being with men who are waaaayyyyyy below your standards and don’t deserve you.   But alas…that’s how the mind works. I have seen this happen sooo many times. Now I don’t mean to point fingers and offend anyone but you know what I am talking about don’t you? So many times I have seen divorced women humiliate themselves and degrade themselves to pamper and fawn on younger men just so that they could get some attention from them. Now I genuinely think that this happens because of two reasons.   Being with young men makes them feel beautiful. Loneliness. Loneliness: This goes without saying. We are all scared of dying alone… we are terrified at the prospect of being all by ourselves in our deathbed. So that is why after divorce a lot of women fawn and fall all over men who don’t deserve to be with them. They are in panic mode…anyone will do for them. Which is why women will spend money, and give up their body just in the hopes of keeping that man. Its not worth it to completely lose your self-respect to be with someone…it absolutely isn’t. No man is worth that much....

Most divorced women NEED to work on this ONE aspect ASAP

So as I was saying in the last article this is going the second part of a 2 parter. In this article we will explore WHY women disregard their self-respect after divorce to be with younger men, who are clearly exploiting them for money and sex. It all comes down to attitude.   Let me tell you about this woman that I used to know a long time back. Before I tell this story though let me make it clear that I am in no way judging her…Just retelling whatever happened. She was in a 20 year marriage when she first discovered that he was cheating. The signs were clearly there of course but she was living in denial. But one day she went through his phone and saw those text messages. The cat was out of the bag now….and it was all over. She felt insulted and humiliated. She felt ugly…on the outside and in the inside. One day after much coaxing her friends took her out to the bar for a pint and this young man approached her. He called her beautiful and that’s the first time she realized that maybe just maybe she is still desirable and not ugly. One thing led to another and they shared a night of passion. It was electric and she wanted to feel that again. Again she went out and slept with a new man…and then again and again and again. That was the only way she got the validation she needed. “I am not ugly..all these men want to sleep with me!” What she didn’t realize was that she...